these are all great points; what can be draw from this - and still consider a path of private settling before taking it publicly? More awareness and resources

these are all great points; what can be draw from this - and still consider a path of private settling before taking it publicly? More awareness and resources provided to the victim? There can be a 3rd party org, a private arbitration that is sworn to privacy that can guide the victim so that he does not suffer from the above weaknesses? Knowing that the issue is being watched even though privately should cause the more powerful person from abusing the situation?