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I don't really think your experience applies to most people. I don't know if it's your situation but perhaps you could consider reducing your pornography intake

• ravenstine 5y ago
  That's valid, although I don't believe I claimed that it applies to most people. Something can be relatively common and have a significant effect without meaning that a majority would be subject to it. I don't appreciate your suggestion, though. Even though you i-don't-know-if-but it, what you say suggests that my viewpoint comes from a dark place of loneliness and pornography intake, which I don't think is fair unless you substantiate that somehow.
  • aixi 5y ago
    Oh, I didn't mean it that way at all, and I'm sorry I made you feel attacked --- what I mean is that I feel that pornography consumption in excess (or even in general, sometimes) can sometimes warp our sense of what is attractive or not.
    • ravenstine 5y ago
      No worries. Yes, it totally can twist what attractiveness means to someone.