Those are all tractable problems. I don't mean overall, but the impact of all of those things on you is something you can control. It's possible that society h

Those are all tractable problems. I don't mean overall, but the impact of all of those things on you is something you can control. It's possible that society has imposed ridiculously stringent "requirements" for raising children (apparently families are buying a second washing machine just for their baby's clothes) that raising children responsibly is viewed as financially unachievable for most.