Not having kids is totally valid. I have two and prefer it that way, can't imagine a life without them, as Jeff explains here[1]. Having a second one is no diff

Not having kids is totally valid. I have two and prefer it that way, can't imagine a life without them, as Jeff explains here[1]. Having a second one is no different (for me) than having only one, actually it's a tad better. So if the joy increases with # of kids around, why not have three then, why not four? And if you backtrack this idea, not having any kids is not bad at all. Just a different life. [1] https://blog.codinghorror.com/on-parenthood/ https://blog.codinghorror.com/on-parenthood/