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Yep, and the downside of having a kid is very low. Basically, if one decide to go with public education system, the expense is low. And one has the choice to di
by justicezyx 5y ago
Yep, and the downside of having a kid is very low. Basically, if one decide to go with public education system, the expense is low. And one has the choice to divorce or engage less with the child if he does not want to be with them. Although morally that's quite bad behavior.
And when they grow into high school, they'll actively drive the parents out of their social circles.
Finally in college, you are free...
- robjan 5y agoI think if you are planning to neglect your child, you should think again about your choice of having children.
- polotics 5y agoNo matter what anyone plans, having children is enough of a reset.
- justicezyx 5y ago> Although morally that's quite bad behavior. Clearly HN commentators seldom read...
- glitchc 5y agoDo you have a child? You sound bitter. Want to talk about it?
- justicezyx 5y agoI am about as bitter as a successful startup founder looking his company grows bigger... Only non parent can ask questions like this... Edit: Kids are those things that you wholeheartedly want them never happen, but also wholeheartedly believe being the best possible in your life, often at different moments and switching so suddenly that one often questions their own sanity... Am I bitter, sure, sometimes, I hate my kids like the the farmer hating the snake, who was bitten by the snake he just rescued. But that is just a tiny part of the parenting life.