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Coming at it from the other direction though, the very small percentage of people who, in my experience, do have a good reaction to "you are being unreasonable"
by xvedejas 5y ago
Coming at it from the other direction though, the very small percentage of people who, in my experience, do have a good reaction to "you are being unreasonable", have ended up realizing that they were in a scenario where they needed to think about conflict resolution. This attitude, although rare, has been extremely useful.
Maybe this suggests the robustness principle: "be conservative in how you behave but liberal in what you accept from others".
- ozim 5y agoYes I read that principle description and that was my first thought. One should not tell others that they are unreasonable and be reasonable enough to understand that someone might still tell them that they are, then act accordingly.