What led you to this realization? I've been goals focused since high school. I've hit some of my goals and not hit other of my goals but after years of this liv

What led you to this realization? I've been goals focused since high school. I've hit some of my goals and not hit other of my goals but after years of this living in that mindset I realized it wasnt that healthy. I was always looking forward to achieving some future goal and when I did/didnt hit it then I spent time kind of wondering through life until I found another meaningful goal. I still have goals but now they are not focused on specific things but rather building skills/doing things that bring me happiness. It seems to be a little more sustainable.