Not exactly. You might think you have some control over your hand in hold 'em, but it's an illusion. You get two private cards and five community cards. You

Not exactly. You might think you have some control over your hand in hold 'em, but it's an illusion. You get two private cards and five community cards. You can pick any five of the seven to use at the showdown. It feels like you get choice with the five-of-seven, but you don't really. There's always one strictly superior set (or trivial equivalencies), and that will be automatically chosen in any serious context ("cards speak".) Draw poker does give you some control, by letting you discard some cards to get them replaced. There are also wackier poker variations that let you buy or pick or trade out more cards, but very little of that is seriously played anywhere.