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Reading did that for me. > They were one of the few avenues I had for connecting with my peers Three hours a week isn't much, but it doesn't have to be gaming

by tgv 5y ago

Reading did that for me. > They were one of the few avenues I had for connecting with my peers Three hours a week isn't much, but it doesn't have to be gaming to connect with people of your age, isn't it? > It wasn't some waste of time that I regret when I look back as an adult. I don't think it's what worries the Chinese government. Or me. I'm quite sure that e.g. a 1 hr/day limit would be a good thing. You can say "parents", but at one point children stop listening. Then what do you do?

brundolf 5y ago
> Reading did that for me. Reading decidedly did not do that for me. I didn't have the attention span for/interest in most books. > but it doesn't have to be gaming to connect with people of your age, isn't it? Socializing was always difficult for me. Gaming was one of the few things I could mention and my peers would say "oh, me too!" > I'm quite sure that e.g. a 1 hr/day limit would be a good thing That would be more than twice the limit described > You can say "parents", but at one point children stop listening. Then what do you do? My parents actually did limit me to 30m/day on weekdays (they took the limits off on weekends). I don't know why you suggest that I could've simply ignored them (but somehow couldn't ignore a government mandate?). When I would reach my limit for the day I'd generally do what homework I had (fair enough), and then... do nothing. Mindlessly watch TV out of total boredom. Looking back, I'm not sure why they thought that was better. Anyway: the common theme for this and all other totalitarian ideas is that individuals are different people with different needs, and what's best for one isn't best for others.
- gmadsen 5y ago
  I assume a government mandate would be controlled at the ISP level. Most parents aren't tech savy enough for that. As a child, I was easily able to hide playing games.
falcolas 5y ago
Reading books is not all that different from gaming from the point of view of value to a child's development. It's escapism, it's a much more solo activity than many online games today, and the primary skills it encourages - reading and imagination - is available in most games to one degree or another. To put another way, they could limit reading to 3 hours a week for mostly the same reasons.

by tgv 5y ago

brundolf 5y ago

> Reading did that for me. Reading decidedly did not do that for me. I didn't have the attention span for/interest in most books. > but it doesn't have to be gaming to connect with people of your age, isn't it? Socializing was always difficult for me. Gaming was one of the few things I could mention and my peers would say "oh, me too!" > I'm quite sure that e.g. a 1 hr/day limit would be a good thing That would be more than twice the limit described > You can say "parents", but at one point children stop listening. Then what do you do? My parents actually did limit me to 30m/day on weekdays (they took the limits off on weekends). I don't know why you suggest that I could've simply ignored them (but somehow couldn't ignore a government mandate?). When I would reach my limit for the day I'd generally do what homework I had (fair enough), and then... do nothing. Mindlessly watch TV out of total boredom. Looking back, I'm not sure why they thought that was better. Anyway: the common theme for this and all other totalitarian ideas is that individuals are different people with different needs, and what's best for one isn't best for others.

gmadsen 5y ago
I assume a government mandate would be controlled at the ISP level. Most parents aren't tech savy enough for that. As a child, I was easily able to hide playing games.

falcolas 5y ago

Reading books is not all that different from gaming from the point of view of value to a child's development. It's escapism, it's a much more solo activity than many online games today, and the primary skills it encourages - reading and imagination - is available in most games to one degree or another. To put another way, they could limit reading to 3 hours a week for mostly the same reasons.