Somehow I find myself, yet again in the land of judgment. Once, I don't understand my situation, then I am being told I am not being open-minded enough. Well, m

Somehow I find myself, yet again in the land of judgment. Once, I don't understand my situation, then I am being told I am not being open-minded enough. Well, my friend, I am actually here, posting for suggestions and I don't want this conversation shift to be a legal debate or to remind me that the advice is free of charge.