There's no magic bullet to solve this because it's an emotional thing you're going through. I can tell you it's irrational (it totally is) all day but I'm not s

There's no magic bullet to solve this because it's an emotional thing you're going through. I can tell you it's irrational (it totally is) all day but I'm not sure it will solve it. On a hunch you sound young, like below 30. It's very possible these things won't disturb you as much when you grow older (you will have other stuff going on like family and you won't feel your entire self worth is defined by your career).