I realized the narrow-mindedness of both co-workers and management in my 40s so I realized I need to be the boss and then I won't be discriminated against. The

I realized the narrow-mindedness of both co-workers and management in my 40s so I realized I need to be the boss and then I won't be discriminated against. The other thing that works: DO NOT work for American companies - foreign companies are far more enlightened and less bigoted!