> a) No one is blaming the user. The user is being used as an excuse: "we compromise your privacy because that user over there wants it". This is not blame in

> a) No one is blaming the user. The user is being used as an excuse: "we compromise your privacy because that user over there wants it". This is not blame in the obvious sense of "it's that user's fault that they lost their data", but it is blame: "the responsibility for this thing isn't ours, the people who wrote the code, but yours."