The best emotional argument is to listen and to put emotional labels on the situation. > "jeeze. that sounds really scary" > "oy. yea. I'd be quite torn." Th

The best emotional argument is to listen and to put emotional labels on the situation. > "jeeze. that sounds really scary" > "oy. yea. I'd be quite torn." The second best emotional argument is just to go fishing or on a hike with him.