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I Want To Unsubscribe, Not "Manage My Preferences"

259 points by gsaines 15y ago

rvkennedy 15y ago
Seconded: may I hereby propose a new standard for email, the "bite me" button? Something to throw the entire company in question down the memory hole.
- gsaines 15y ago
  That certainly would be satisfying. A few days ago I got a survey request from a company I had recently ordered from and they were using the same old "manage your preferences" link. I wished there was something I could do to let them know how frustrated I was about getting that email and the fact they made me work for 5 minutes to unsubscribe!
blackboxxx 15y ago
When an email tries to be sneaky with the old "Manage my Preferences" trick, I flag it as spam. They should know better. BONUS: if anywhere in the email they mention the word "webinar", they're gone.
- cool-RR 15y ago
  What's the problem with webinars?
  - justincormack 15y ago
    Fine if you arrange one but spam emails suggesting you might want to join one are the penis enlargement of business, I get a lot of them for stuff I have no interest in buying.
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  - jarin 15y ago
    Marking emails as spam willy-nilly can hurt legit companies. I generally only do it if I didn't opt-in, or if they don't provide a one-click unsubscribe or ignore the unsubscribe request. It's good karma to not be a dick.
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  - aristidb 15y ago
    Yes, it is immoral. It might make it much harder for the sender to send any mails at all, because he's marked in the systems as a spammer.
  - spullara 15y ago
    It is an abuse of a system designed to stop unsolicited email. You're basically ruining that system every time you do that. Someone who wants to get that email may now miss out on it. If you signed up for it, unsubscribe from it. Hitting spam is very selfish.
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    - omaranto 15y ago
      Mailing lists that take more than one click to unsubscribe from __are__ unsolicited! I just don't always know if that's the case when I sign up.
      - pbreit 15y ago
        But that doesn't necessarily make them spam. And that's the point. You are marking something as spam that is not spam and that makes you a bad actor.
- sorbus 15y ago
  Seconded. If I can't unsubscribe from an email with one click (at the very most two), then I mark it as spam.
  - pbreit 15y ago
    Why do people mark non-spam as spam? Why do they boast about it?
    - raganwald 15y ago
      In what sense is an unsolicited and unwanted marketing email not spam?
      - pbreit 15y ago
        They didn't say it was unsolicited or unwanted. They just said if they could not unsubscribe in one or two clicks they'd mark it as spam, regardless if it was spam. Why the down vote?
        chrisbolt 15y ago
        Doesn't the fact that they immediately want to unsubscribe make it quite obvious that the email is unsolicited? I have been getting spam from companies who obviously got my email address from someone who sold it to them, for quite a while now. Even though their messages have clear unsubscribe links, list real mailing addresses, and use reputable email marketing companies, that doesn't make it any less spammy.
        pbreit 15y ago
        > Doesn't the fact that they immediately want to unsubscribe make it quite obvious that the email is unsolicited? No, not at all. Spam is typically defined as bulk and indiscriminate.
        sgk284 15y ago
        By clicking 'unsubscribe', the implied intent is that the email is unwanted. So I can either mark an email as 'unwanted' by clicking 'unsubscribe' or by clicking 'report spam'. I'll always give the sender the benefit of the doubt and try to unsubscribe, but if any action is required on my part other than clicking the link, I take the path of least resistance and simply click 'report spam'. Either way, I'll stop getting those emails.
- georgemcbay 15y ago
  I also mark any mail where unsubscribe is more difficult than a couple of clicks as spam, though I don't have the instant hate for "webinar" mails that you do (I've never even noticed that as a thing, so I have no opinion one way or another). This reply is pretty much a public +1 (I also upvoted the post). If points were visible I wouldn't have bothered with the reply and would have just gone with the upvote, but I'm trying to make sure any email marketing folks out there who may be reading this realize you aren't the only one who does this and they are ultimately hurting themselves by making it more difficult to unsubscribe than it needs to be.
- AD7863 15y ago
  Yep, I honestly think it's the best way to deal with it, offer me a one-click unsubscribe or get your emails marked as spam.
  - pbreit 15y ago
    First, I think 2 clicks is ok. Second, I don't think it's admirable to mark non-spam as spam.
    - xenophanes 15y ago
      if it's illegal (e.g. manage prefs thing) and you don't want it, then it counts as spam. 2 click is fine tho.
      - pbreit 15y ago
        They didn't say it was illegal or that they didn't want it. That's my point. Why the down vote?
        pbreit 15y ago
        Please explain the down votes or have some discretion.
    - AD7863 15y ago
      If I didn't sign-up for it then I'm marking it as spam thank you very much.
- lukejduncan 15y ago
  I've noticed that if I flag something like this in gmail as spam it still gets through, repeatedly.
  - jamesteow 15y ago
    Same with Yahoo Mail. So annoying. You'd think that after two times, the service would realize that I don't want to receive e-mail from them.
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gasull 15y ago
http://www.otherinbox.com/ http://www.otherinbox.com/ comes handy for part of this problem. One of the default folders that OtherInBox creates in your Gmail account is an OIB/Unsubscribe folder/label. Then you can label messages from meetup.com as OIB/Unsubscribe, then all future messages from meetup.com will go there. Unsubscribing from Meetup groups isn't an option if you want to subscribe to their Google Calendar. And you might want to get some messages from Meetup but not others (maybe you just want reminders for meetups), so labeling as spam is not an option.
- gsaines 15y ago
  That's a good suggestion gasull, thanks for providing it. I actually just left a really promising meetup group because I was so tired of getting their spam. Maybe with this I can sign up again!
- blakeperdue 15y ago
  After reading this I realized how many Meetup.com emails I receive. I've previously tried to navigate meetup's account preferences to unsubscribe without success. I was so annoyed I took the time to write them to tell them to put a one-click unsub button in their emails. I got a polite "thanks, but not doing that" response. I find it really annoying that they can't or won't make it easy for their users to one-click opt out of group emails. I'd rather drop the service than take the time to figure out how to stop getting emails. Deleted my account just now.
  - blakeperdue 15y ago
    The response I got from Meetup.com is below. The key bit is "You'll want to 'Edit email settings' for each Meetup group that you've joined." I'm in like 20+ groups; it makes unsubscribing a huge pain. 9/12/2010 I have a suggestion. I get many emails from meetup. I don't want to get them anymore. I also don't want to have to go login, then go to a manage notifications page and try to figure out how to stop getting email (which, btw I have tried to do unsuccessfully). Why don't you guys put one link at the bottom that says "Don't want to get this type of notification in the future? click here to unsubscribe." Boom, one click and I'm done. It make is much easier on your users. -Blake I'm sorry for the inconvenience! Currently there's no way to completely eliminate the emails you get from your Meetup groups or your Organizers. However, I took a look at the email you'd forwarded in, and that was an Automated Meetup Reminder, which you can opt out of by going to your Email Setting page for that group, here: http://www.awdg.org/settings/ http://www.awdg.org/settings/ In general, if you're only interested in hearing from your Meetup group's Organizer and about the Meetups on the calendar, turning off the email discussion with your entire group will help reduce the amount of messages you're receiving. To change your email settings within each group, go to: http://www.meetup.com/account/comm/ http://www.meetup.com/account/comm/ You'll want to 'Edit email settings' for each Meetup group that you've joined. Having more control over the emails you receive from your Meetup Group Organizers is a great suggestion. We really appreciate your thoughts on this, and your patience while we make changes and improvements around here. :) If you've got any other questions, please let us know. Sincerely, Tamara Garvey Meetup Community Team Specialist Meetup HQ
palish 15y ago
Whenever I sign up with a service, I try to use the "+" trick. foobar+linkedin@gmail.com That way, if worse comes to worst, you can just block the whole destination email address. Sometimes this doesn't work, though, which is annoying.
- o1iver 15y ago
  I tried doing this for a while, but it doesn't work in 90% of the cases (why is everybody re-inventing email validation!!).
- gsaines 15y ago
  I actually learned about that one recently as well, but haven't had much luck actually using it to filter. I think my problem stems from not having an accurate record of what services I've used that technique with and which I haven't. :)
- baddox 15y ago
  Sadly, most developers use some sort of ridiculous email validation that doesn't allow the plus sign. Worse than that, I've encountered several sites and newsletters that allow the plus sign when you sign up, but their unsubscribe URL breaks (presumably due to some escaping/encoding mismatch), preventing you from unsubscribing.
  - HoLyVieR 15y ago
    I have seen sites like meetup.com that disallow the "+" sign for spam reason. Instead of having proper spam detection and filtering they just added arbitrary rules like that.
  - mikeknoop 15y ago
    jcpenney.com does this. It's incredibly infuriating.
- icebraining 15y ago
  That's a good step, but it has drawbacks (like some websites refusing them). I just got my own domain and enabled catch-all, so now I just put [website-name]@[mydomain.com], which is never refused. Also, if they happen to sell to spammers, I'll know exactly who it was, whereas with that scheme they can simply remove the \+.* part.
gallerytungsten 15y ago
I use a challenge-response system called Active Spam Killer. http://a-s-k.sourceforge.net/ http://a-s-k.sourceforge.net/ When some dastardly spammer adds me to their list, despite the challenge message explicitly telling them not to, I then add them to my "blacklist" and never hear from them again. Note that you do have to be running your own mail server to get this system working; and you have to edit the lists from the command line. Those challenges aside, this software has eliminated vast quantities of spam and unwanted list mailings for me.
- o1iver 15y ago
  Otherwise you can use Gmail filters to archive/delete emails from ex "*@convore.com" (every friggin day)...
- tzs 15y ago
  What happens when you buy something from a site and they send your receipt (and possibly a software key) by email? Where I work we get enough mail bounces from customers whose mailboxes are over quota, or who spelled their address wrong, and so on that challenges from the few using C/R systems are lost in the noise. No one has time to go through all of these, find the challenges, and jump through whatever hoops they want to get the message through.
  - gallerytungsten 15y ago
    I use a gmail address for edge cases such as you mentioned. I also pre-emptively add people to my "whitelist" so they don't have to confirm.
- pbreit 15y ago
  Challenge responses are silly and unnecessary.
  - gallerytungsten 15y ago
    At the time I implemented the system I use, I was receiving 600 spam messages per day. The challenge-response system was an excellent and necessary solution.
o1iver 15y ago
The best solution I have found is just to use Gmail filters (if you are using Gmail). I have about 20 emails a day that get labeled "useless" and are immediately archived or deleted... Plus: you can define pretty specific filters (incl. keyword based if you just want to remove certain emails from a certain address/domain, for example containing "upgrade", "marketing", "try", etc)
wccrawford 15y ago
If I didn't opt-in and they send me a message that I have to log in to opt-out, I mark it as spam. Sometimes I'll also log in and remove myself, but not always. Depends on the company. On the other hand, if there's a simple 1-click link, I will usually click it and merely archive or delete the mail. Webmasters: It's in your best interest to make it easy to unsubscribe. It only makes people mad. It doesn't make them stay as customers.
- youarecorrect 15y ago
  I agree, I am very liberal with the "mark as spam" button. Even if I opt out and they say, "might take two weeks to propagate changes." That's weird; it only took you two minutes to propagate changes enough to start sending mail. If I am unable to opt out without logging in, or if I opt out and more come I just mark it spam.
veyron 15y ago
Does anyone use a service like mailinator or spamgourmet?
- icebraining 15y ago
  Yes, but only for one time signups that I don't expect to come back. Mailinator isn't exactly private.
- bshep 15y ago
  I use spamgourmet for almost all my accounts: sitename.username@xoxy.net or asdf.net I get 5 emails by default and I can add more if needed, and if i deem them worthy I would add the site to the allowed senders list, the best thing is I can track who sold my email address pretty easily.
TracyWilker 15y ago
I just paid $22.87 for an iPad2-64GB and my girlfriend loves her Panasonic Lumix GF 1 Camera that we got for $38.76 there arriving tomorrow by UPS. I will never pay such expensive retail prices in stores again. Especially when I also sold a 40 inch LED TV to my boss for $675 which only cost me $62.81 to buy. Here is the website we use to get it all from, GrabCent. çom
murz 15y ago
I think requiring a log-in is actually against the CAN-SPAM regulations. FTC.gov's web site states: "an e-mail recipient cannot be required to pay a fee, provide information other than his or her e-mail address and opt-out preferences, or take any steps other than sending a reply e-mail message or visiting a single Internet Web page to opt out of receiving future e-mail from a sender" http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-compliance-guide-business http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-complia...
- eli 15y ago
  It is definitely illegal to require a login. CAN-SPAM has many (many) faults, but it is extremely explicit about there being no funny business in the unsubscribe process. Current FTC rules say that your unsubscribe link must either immediately unsubscribe the user or lead to a page that (at most) asks for only your email address and does not try to confuse or dissuade you. If you're fluent in legalese, it's in the set of rules known as "CAN-SPAM 2008" http://www.ftc.gov/os/2008/05/R411008frn.pdf http://www.ftc.gov/os/2008/05/R411008frn.pdf
  - pinko 15y ago
    What realistic recourse does anyone have when a sender violates this requirement?
    - eli 15y ago
      IANAL. Unfortunately I don't think it's possible to file a civil suit on your own as with, say, junk faxes (though someone please correct me if that's wrong). So I guess your best bet is to file a complaint with the FTC, which does occasionally sanction companies, or with your state attorney general, who also has the power to force action.
    - JoachimSchipper 15y ago
      Mark as spam in a big system (GMail, Hotmail, DCC, whatever). Seriously, it doesn't take that many pissed GMail users to cause GMail to drop all of your mail. This is one reason why outfits like MailChimp will kick you off if you get "marked as spam" too often. (You could argue that such mail isn't "real" spam; nonetheless, "mark as spam" is realistic.)
spullara 15y ago
This word "spam", I do not think it means what you think it means. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spam_(electronic) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spam_(electronic) "Spam is the use of electronic messaging systems (including most broadcast media, digital delivery systems) to send unsolicited bulk messages indiscriminately" It seems as though a lot of people on HN think that any email message they didn't want to get at that moment is spam. Reminds me of the misunderstanding of the work "hacker".
- icebraining 15y ago
  That's why the article tells us the problem today is _not_ spam, but opt-in email. Where do you see 'spam' being misused in it?
  - pbreit 15y ago
    From all the people saying they mark spam if there is not a one click unsubscribe.
- btilly 15y ago
  It sounds like most of the mail being complained about was not solicited and was likely sent to many people. That makes it spam by your definition.
  - cdcarter 15y ago
    But it wasn't sent indiscriminately.
    - MatthewPhillips 15y ago
      Yes it is. The services collect email addresses and then send their spam to all of them.
gst 15y ago
At least there is some (complicated) method to unsubscribe. I try to unsubscribe from Amazon's affiliate spam newsletter for years now, but it just doesn't work. I can toggle the "subscribe" box on the website as many times as I want - no matter what the website displays, the mails just continue to arrive in my inbox. I've contacted the support numerous times now, but they either tell me that "after unsubscribing it takes some time until you stop to receive the mails" or that "we've unsubscribed you now manually". Of course this never worked. So if anyone from Amazon is reading this: This concerns the German "Amazon PartnerNet" affiliate program and the message category that I can't unsubscribe is "Feedback zum Partnerprogramm". I'd happily send you my account information if there's any chance of fixing this annoying bug.
- bdonlan 15y ago
  With amazon, it's possible to have multiple accounts registered to the same email (with different passwords). You might have unsubscribed on one account, but not on another.
  - zecho 15y ago
    That may be, but Amazon has ridiculous options for turning off emails. For example, if you're a member of Amazon Student or Amazon Moms (which includes a limited version of Prime), you can't opt-out of emails about Student or Moms without actually dropping the service.
    - madiator 15y ago
      "If you would like to stop receiving e-mail offers from Amazon Student, you may cancel your Amazon Student membership here:<link>" : UNBELIEVABLE!
  - gst 15y ago
    Unfortunately that's not the case. The footer of the mail lists the associate ID which is identical to the ID for which I've turned of the mails.
AD7863 15y ago
I really do hate it when you have to 'manage your preferences' when you want to stop receiving email more-often-than-not that you don't remember signing up for. What's more is, if you can somehow manage to remember your account details and navigate the labyrinth of menus to get to where you want to be, you then have to unsubscribe and believe it or not, some websites have even told me it could take up to a week for the changes to take affect. Ridiculous is the word the springs to mind. Most recently though, I have started to mark emails which don't offer me a one-click-unsubscribe as spam, that'll teach them.
DanLivesHere 15y ago
I use Mailchimp for http://dlewis.net/nik http://dlewis.net/nik and all the emails I send have both "unsubscribe from this list" and "update subscription preferences" on every email. Clicking the former will unsubscribe you -- no log-in required. (Comically, I once forwarded a copy to someone who clicked it, to see what would happen, and blammo, I was unsubscribed from my own list.) The second is used for changing your email address or your name. That's it. As a publisher, I actually prefer it this way. If you do not want to get my emails, I don't want you getting them. I'm not writing for people who don't want to read.
Herring 15y ago
This is why I love gmail filters. Opt-in spam is terribly easy to filter out.
dirtae 15y ago
Absolutely agree. We (AnyLeaf) send a weekly email newsletter to our users, with one-click unsubscribe. Companies that make unsubscribing difficult are ruining it for everyone. Even though we are very clear about the fact that we'll be sending email and make it simple to unsubscribe, we still get users flagging our messages as spam. This seems to be largely because unsubscribing from email newsletters has become so annoying that a significant fraction of users will just mark a message as spam rather than figure it out, even if the message is not truly spam. It's hard to blame them, especially when huge senders like Target make it so difficult to unsubscribe that the author of this blog post couldn't figure it out: http://bigfatmarketingblog.com/2011/01/17/adventures-in-email-unsubscribing/ http://bigfatmarketingblog.com/2011/01/17/adventures-in-emai... It's a shame that RFC 2369, which provides a standard for unsubscribing from mailing lists, has never been widely adopted. http://www.ietf.org/rfc/rfc2369.txt http://www.ietf.org/rfc/rfc2369.txt
- pyre 15y ago
  A large number of (non-technical) users associate "Mark as spam" with "I don't want to receive this anymore." In some cases, bad experiences with unsubscribe links may have nothing to do with it.
- tomjen3 15y ago
  You could properly solve that problem by letting them sign up for the email in the first place and rather than say "we will send you and you will have to unsubscribe".
- aristus 15y ago
  I really wish Google or one of the big email providers would add an unsubscribe button. It would try to do the right thing in the unsubscribe flow, and apply a personal filter, but not penalize the sender.
  - rexf 15y ago
    Gmail has a prototype feature to unsubscribe you from e-mails: http://gmailblog.blogspot.com/2009/07/unsubscribing-made-easy.html http://gmailblog.blogspot.com/2009/07/unsubscribing-made-eas...
shabble 15y ago
I can't remember the site off the top of my head, but something recently wanted me to go through an entire sequence of 'exit interview' forms in order to unsubscribe. My response in the 'feedback' field was quite satisfying to write, but I doubt it'll ever actually be looked at.
dendory 15y ago
I never unsubscribe from lists. Any time I get an email from some new list I've apparently been subscribed to, I add a new filter to automatically delete any mail coming from that domain. I don't think my email is physically able to receive any mail at all from facebook, google, yahoo, and most of the other big domains out there, and I don't miss it at all.
- jamesteow 15y ago
  Great idea. Going to do the same.
stretchwithme 15y ago
The whole "unsubscribe" thing when you haven't subscribed to anything is a lie.
gte910h 15y ago
I report them to the FTC and tell them that I did if require anything more than a click or two and send them this link: http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-compliance-guide-business http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-complia... File a complaint here: https://www.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/ https://www.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/
paulbjensen 15y ago
I setup a mail filter to forward the email back to wherever it's sent, multiple times, and delete that email from my inbox. I've generated email threads from LoveFilm where they've had an entire conversation with themselves, great stuff.
mmahemoff 15y ago
I wrote up some ideas on best practices for unsubscription recently, after trawling through my inbox to clear the clutter. http://softwareas.com/best-practices-for-mailing-list-unsubscription http://softwareas.com/best-practices-for-mailing-list-unsubs... If you're doing one-click unsubscribe, a smart practice is showing a message with other ways to stay engaged, e.g. Twitter ... and providing a one-click undo (ie re-subscribe).
RobertKohr 15y ago
I despise it when I try to unsubscribe and this comes up for me. My simple response: click "spam" button in my email, thus decreasing their deliverability. If you send out newsletters or whatnot, be sure to make unsubscribe obvious and single-click, otherwise you will face the ultimate in email marketing payback... no one seeing your messages. As someone who used to be heavy in email marketing, deliverability is the holy grail, and it doesn't take too many times as marked as spam before you are lost forever.

259 points by gsaines 15y ago

Seconded: may I hereby propose a new standard for email, the "bite me" button? Something to throw the entire company in question down the memory hole.

gsaines 15y ago
That certainly would be satisfying. A few days ago I got a survey request from a company I had recently ordered from and they were using the same old "manage your preferences" link. I wished there was something I could do to let them know how frustrated I was about getting that email and the fact they made me work for 5 minutes to unsubscribe!

blackboxxx 15y ago

When an email tries to be sneaky with the old "Manage my Preferences" trick, I flag it as spam. They should know better. BONUS: if anywhere in the email they mention the word "webinar", they're gone.

cool-RR 15y ago
What's the problem with webinars?
- justincormack 15y ago
  Fine if you arrange one but spam emails suggesting you might want to join one are the penis enlargement of business, I get a lot of them for stuff I have no interest in buying.
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- jarin 15y ago
  Marking emails as spam willy-nilly can hurt legit companies. I generally only do it if I didn't opt-in, or if they don't provide a one-click unsubscribe or ignore the unsubscribe request. It's good karma to not be a dick.
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- aristidb 15y ago
  Yes, it is immoral. It might make it much harder for the sender to send any mails at all, because he's marked in the systems as a spammer.
- spullara 15y ago
  It is an abuse of a system designed to stop unsolicited email. You're basically ruining that system every time you do that. Someone who wants to get that email may now miss out on it. If you signed up for it, unsubscribe from it. Hitting spam is very selfish.
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  - omaranto 15y ago
    Mailing lists that take more than one click to unsubscribe from __are__ unsolicited! I just don't always know if that's the case when I sign up.
    - pbreit 15y ago
      But that doesn't necessarily make them spam. And that's the point. You are marking something as spam that is not spam and that makes you a bad actor.
sorbus 15y ago
Seconded. If I can't unsubscribe from an email with one click (at the very most two), then I mark it as spam.
- pbreit 15y ago
  Why do people mark non-spam as spam? Why do they boast about it?
  - raganwald 15y ago
    In what sense is an unsolicited and unwanted marketing email not spam?
    - pbreit 15y ago
      They didn't say it was unsolicited or unwanted. They just said if they could not unsubscribe in one or two clicks they'd mark it as spam, regardless if it was spam. Why the down vote?
      - chrisbolt 15y ago
        Doesn't the fact that they immediately want to unsubscribe make it quite obvious that the email is unsolicited? I have been getting spam from companies who obviously got my email address from someone who sold it to them, for quite a while now. Even though their messages have clear unsubscribe links, list real mailing addresses, and use reputable email marketing companies, that doesn't make it any less spammy.
        pbreit 15y ago
        > Doesn't the fact that they immediately want to unsubscribe make it quite obvious that the email is unsolicited? No, not at all. Spam is typically defined as bulk and indiscriminate.
      - sgk284 15y ago
        By clicking 'unsubscribe', the implied intent is that the email is unwanted. So I can either mark an email as 'unwanted' by clicking 'unsubscribe' or by clicking 'report spam'. I'll always give the sender the benefit of the doubt and try to unsubscribe, but if any action is required on my part other than clicking the link, I take the path of least resistance and simply click 'report spam'. Either way, I'll stop getting those emails.
georgemcbay 15y ago
I also mark any mail where unsubscribe is more difficult than a couple of clicks as spam, though I don't have the instant hate for "webinar" mails that you do (I've never even noticed that as a thing, so I have no opinion one way or another). This reply is pretty much a public +1 (I also upvoted the post). If points were visible I wouldn't have bothered with the reply and would have just gone with the upvote, but I'm trying to make sure any email marketing folks out there who may be reading this realize you aren't the only one who does this and they are ultimately hurting themselves by making it more difficult to unsubscribe than it needs to be.
AD7863 15y ago
Yep, I honestly think it's the best way to deal with it, offer me a one-click unsubscribe or get your emails marked as spam.
- pbreit 15y ago
  First, I think 2 clicks is ok. Second, I don't think it's admirable to mark non-spam as spam.
  - xenophanes 15y ago
    if it's illegal (e.g. manage prefs thing) and you don't want it, then it counts as spam. 2 click is fine tho.
    - pbreit 15y ago
      They didn't say it was illegal or that they didn't want it. That's my point. Why the down vote?
      - pbreit 15y ago
        Please explain the down votes or have some discretion.
  - AD7863 15y ago
    If I didn't sign-up for it then I'm marking it as spam thank you very much.
lukejduncan 15y ago
I've noticed that if I flag something like this in gmail as spam it still gets through, repeatedly.
- jamesteow 15y ago
  Same with Yahoo Mail. So annoying. You'd think that after two times, the service would realize that I don't want to receive e-mail from them.

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gasull 15y ago

http://www.otherinbox.com/ http://www.otherinbox.com/ comes handy for part of this problem. One of the default folders that OtherInBox creates in your Gmail account is an OIB/Unsubscribe folder/label. Then you can label messages from meetup.com as OIB/Unsubscribe, then all future messages from meetup.com will go there. Unsubscribing from Meetup groups isn't an option if you want to subscribe to their Google Calendar. And you might want to get some messages from Meetup but not others (maybe you just want reminders for meetups), so labeling as spam is not an option.

gsaines 15y ago
That's a good suggestion gasull, thanks for providing it. I actually just left a really promising meetup group because I was so tired of getting their spam. Maybe with this I can sign up again!
blakeperdue 15y ago
After reading this I realized how many Meetup.com emails I receive. I've previously tried to navigate meetup's account preferences to unsubscribe without success. I was so annoyed I took the time to write them to tell them to put a one-click unsub button in their emails. I got a polite "thanks, but not doing that" response. I find it really annoying that they can't or won't make it easy for their users to one-click opt out of group emails. I'd rather drop the service than take the time to figure out how to stop getting emails. Deleted my account just now.
- blakeperdue 15y ago
  The response I got from Meetup.com is below. The key bit is "You'll want to 'Edit email settings' for each Meetup group that you've joined." I'm in like 20+ groups; it makes unsubscribing a huge pain. 9/12/2010 I have a suggestion. I get many emails from meetup. I don't want to get them anymore. I also don't want to have to go login, then go to a manage notifications page and try to figure out how to stop getting email (which, btw I have tried to do unsuccessfully). Why don't you guys put one link at the bottom that says "Don't want to get this type of notification in the future? click here to unsubscribe." Boom, one click and I'm done. It make is much easier on your users. -Blake I'm sorry for the inconvenience! Currently there's no way to completely eliminate the emails you get from your Meetup groups or your Organizers. However, I took a look at the email you'd forwarded in, and that was an Automated Meetup Reminder, which you can opt out of by going to your Email Setting page for that group, here: http://www.awdg.org/settings/ http://www.awdg.org/settings/ In general, if you're only interested in hearing from your Meetup group's Organizer and about the Meetups on the calendar, turning off the email discussion with your entire group will help reduce the amount of messages you're receiving. To change your email settings within each group, go to: http://www.meetup.com/account/comm/ http://www.meetup.com/account/comm/ You'll want to 'Edit email settings' for each Meetup group that you've joined. Having more control over the emails you receive from your Meetup Group Organizers is a great suggestion. We really appreciate your thoughts on this, and your patience while we make changes and improvements around here. :) If you've got any other questions, please let us know. Sincerely, Tamara Garvey Meetup Community Team Specialist Meetup HQ

palish 15y ago

Whenever I sign up with a service, I try to use the "+" trick. foobar+linkedin@gmail.com That way, if worse comes to worst, you can just block the whole destination email address. Sometimes this doesn't work, though, which is annoying.

o1iver 15y ago
I tried doing this for a while, but it doesn't work in 90% of the cases (why is everybody re-inventing email validation!!).
gsaines 15y ago
I actually learned about that one recently as well, but haven't had much luck actually using it to filter. I think my problem stems from not having an accurate record of what services I've used that technique with and which I haven't. :)
baddox 15y ago
Sadly, most developers use some sort of ridiculous email validation that doesn't allow the plus sign. Worse than that, I've encountered several sites and newsletters that allow the plus sign when you sign up, but their unsubscribe URL breaks (presumably due to some escaping/encoding mismatch), preventing you from unsubscribing.
- HoLyVieR 15y ago
  I have seen sites like meetup.com that disallow the "+" sign for spam reason. Instead of having proper spam detection and filtering they just added arbitrary rules like that.
- mikeknoop 15y ago
  jcpenney.com does this. It's incredibly infuriating.
icebraining 15y ago
That's a good step, but it has drawbacks (like some websites refusing them). I just got my own domain and enabled catch-all, so now I just put [website-name]@[mydomain.com], which is never refused. Also, if they happen to sell to spammers, I'll know exactly who it was, whereas with that scheme they can simply remove the \+.* part.

gallerytungsten 15y ago

I use a challenge-response system called Active Spam Killer. http://a-s-k.sourceforge.net/ http://a-s-k.sourceforge.net/ When some dastardly spammer adds me to their list, despite the challenge message explicitly telling them not to, I then add them to my "blacklist" and never hear from them again. Note that you do have to be running your own mail server to get this system working; and you have to edit the lists from the command line. Those challenges aside, this software has eliminated vast quantities of spam and unwanted list mailings for me.

o1iver 15y ago
Otherwise you can use Gmail filters to archive/delete emails from ex "*@convore.com" (every friggin day)...
tzs 15y ago
What happens when you buy something from a site and they send your receipt (and possibly a software key) by email? Where I work we get enough mail bounces from customers whose mailboxes are over quota, or who spelled their address wrong, and so on that challenges from the few using C/R systems are lost in the noise. No one has time to go through all of these, find the challenges, and jump through whatever hoops they want to get the message through.
- gallerytungsten 15y ago
  I use a gmail address for edge cases such as you mentioned. I also pre-emptively add people to my "whitelist" so they don't have to confirm.
pbreit 15y ago
Challenge responses are silly and unnecessary.
- gallerytungsten 15y ago
  At the time I implemented the system I use, I was receiving 600 spam messages per day. The challenge-response system was an excellent and necessary solution.

o1iver 15y ago

The best solution I have found is just to use Gmail filters (if you are using Gmail). I have about 20 emails a day that get labeled "useless" and are immediately archived or deleted... Plus: you can define pretty specific filters (incl. keyword based if you just want to remove certain emails from a certain address/domain, for example containing "upgrade", "marketing", "try", etc)

wccrawford 15y ago

If I didn't opt-in and they send me a message that I have to log in to opt-out, I mark it as spam. Sometimes I'll also log in and remove myself, but not always. Depends on the company. On the other hand, if there's a simple 1-click link, I will usually click it and merely archive or delete the mail. Webmasters: It's in your best interest to make it easy to unsubscribe. It only makes people mad. It doesn't make them stay as customers.

youarecorrect 15y ago
I agree, I am very liberal with the "mark as spam" button. Even if I opt out and they say, "might take two weeks to propagate changes." That's weird; it only took you two minutes to propagate changes enough to start sending mail. If I am unable to opt out without logging in, or if I opt out and more come I just mark it spam.

veyron 15y ago

Does anyone use a service like mailinator or spamgourmet?

icebraining 15y ago
Yes, but only for one time signups that I don't expect to come back. Mailinator isn't exactly private.
bshep 15y ago
I use spamgourmet for almost all my accounts: sitename.username@xoxy.net or asdf.net I get 5 emails by default and I can add more if needed, and if i deem them worthy I would add the site to the allowed senders list, the best thing is I can track who sold my email address pretty easily.

TracyWilker 15y ago

I just paid $22.87 for an iPad2-64GB and my girlfriend loves her Panasonic Lumix GF 1 Camera that we got for $38.76 there arriving tomorrow by UPS. I will never pay such expensive retail prices in stores again. Especially when I also sold a 40 inch LED TV to my boss for $675 which only cost me $62.81 to buy. Here is the website we use to get it all from, GrabCent. çom

murz 15y ago

I think requiring a log-in is actually against the CAN-SPAM regulations. FTC.gov's web site states: "an e-mail recipient cannot be required to pay a fee, provide information other than his or her e-mail address and opt-out preferences, or take any steps other than sending a reply e-mail message or visiting a single Internet Web page to opt out of receiving future e-mail from a sender" http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-compliance-guide-business http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-complia...

eli 15y ago
It is definitely illegal to require a login. CAN-SPAM has many (many) faults, but it is extremely explicit about there being no funny business in the unsubscribe process. Current FTC rules say that your unsubscribe link must either immediately unsubscribe the user or lead to a page that (at most) asks for only your email address and does not try to confuse or dissuade you. If you're fluent in legalese, it's in the set of rules known as "CAN-SPAM 2008" http://www.ftc.gov/os/2008/05/R411008frn.pdf http://www.ftc.gov/os/2008/05/R411008frn.pdf
- pinko 15y ago
  What realistic recourse does anyone have when a sender violates this requirement?
  - eli 15y ago
    IANAL. Unfortunately I don't think it's possible to file a civil suit on your own as with, say, junk faxes (though someone please correct me if that's wrong). So I guess your best bet is to file a complaint with the FTC, which does occasionally sanction companies, or with your state attorney general, who also has the power to force action.
  - JoachimSchipper 15y ago
    Mark as spam in a big system (GMail, Hotmail, DCC, whatever). Seriously, it doesn't take that many pissed GMail users to cause GMail to drop all of your mail. This is one reason why outfits like MailChimp will kick you off if you get "marked as spam" too often. (You could argue that such mail isn't "real" spam; nonetheless, "mark as spam" is realistic.)

spullara 15y ago

This word "spam", I do not think it means what you think it means. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spam_(electronic) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spam_(electronic) "Spam is the use of electronic messaging systems (including most broadcast media, digital delivery systems) to send unsolicited bulk messages indiscriminately" It seems as though a lot of people on HN think that any email message they didn't want to get at that moment is spam. Reminds me of the misunderstanding of the work "hacker".

icebraining 15y ago
That's why the article tells us the problem today is _not_ spam, but opt-in email. Where do you see 'spam' being misused in it?
- pbreit 15y ago
  From all the people saying they mark spam if there is not a one click unsubscribe.
btilly 15y ago
It sounds like most of the mail being complained about was not solicited and was likely sent to many people. That makes it spam by your definition.
- cdcarter 15y ago
  But it wasn't sent indiscriminately.
  - MatthewPhillips 15y ago
    Yes it is. The services collect email addresses and then send their spam to all of them.

gst 15y ago

At least there is some (complicated) method to unsubscribe. I try to unsubscribe from Amazon's affiliate spam newsletter for years now, but it just doesn't work. I can toggle the "subscribe" box on the website as many times as I want - no matter what the website displays, the mails just continue to arrive in my inbox. I've contacted the support numerous times now, but they either tell me that "after unsubscribing it takes some time until you stop to receive the mails" or that "we've unsubscribed you now manually". Of course this never worked. So if anyone from Amazon is reading this: This concerns the German "Amazon PartnerNet" affiliate program and the message category that I can't unsubscribe is "Feedback zum Partnerprogramm". I'd happily send you my account information if there's any chance of fixing this annoying bug.

bdonlan 15y ago
With amazon, it's possible to have multiple accounts registered to the same email (with different passwords). You might have unsubscribed on one account, but not on another.
- zecho 15y ago
  That may be, but Amazon has ridiculous options for turning off emails. For example, if you're a member of Amazon Student or Amazon Moms (which includes a limited version of Prime), you can't opt-out of emails about Student or Moms without actually dropping the service.
  - madiator 15y ago
    "If you would like to stop receiving e-mail offers from Amazon Student, you may cancel your Amazon Student membership here:<link>" : UNBELIEVABLE!
- gst 15y ago
  Unfortunately that's not the case. The footer of the mail lists the associate ID which is identical to the ID for which I've turned of the mails.

AD7863 15y ago

I really do hate it when you have to 'manage your preferences' when you want to stop receiving email more-often-than-not that you don't remember signing up for. What's more is, if you can somehow manage to remember your account details and navigate the labyrinth of menus to get to where you want to be, you then have to unsubscribe and believe it or not, some websites have even told me it could take up to a week for the changes to take affect. Ridiculous is the word the springs to mind. Most recently though, I have started to mark emails which don't offer me a one-click-unsubscribe as spam, that'll teach them.

DanLivesHere 15y ago

I use Mailchimp for http://dlewis.net/nik http://dlewis.net/nik and all the emails I send have both "unsubscribe from this list" and "update subscription preferences" on every email. Clicking the former will unsubscribe you -- no log-in required. (Comically, I once forwarded a copy to someone who clicked it, to see what would happen, and blammo, I was unsubscribed from my own list.) The second is used for changing your email address or your name. That's it. As a publisher, I actually prefer it this way. If you do not want to get my emails, I don't want you getting them. I'm not writing for people who don't want to read.

Herring 15y ago

This is why I love gmail filters. Opt-in spam is terribly easy to filter out.

dirtae 15y ago

Absolutely agree. We (AnyLeaf) send a weekly email newsletter to our users, with one-click unsubscribe. Companies that make unsubscribing difficult are ruining it for everyone. Even though we are very clear about the fact that we'll be sending email and make it simple to unsubscribe, we still get users flagging our messages as spam. This seems to be largely because unsubscribing from email newsletters has become so annoying that a significant fraction of users will just mark a message as spam rather than figure it out, even if the message is not truly spam. It's hard to blame them, especially when huge senders like Target make it so difficult to unsubscribe that the author of this blog post couldn't figure it out: http://bigfatmarketingblog.com/2011/01/17/adventures-in-email-unsubscribing/ http://bigfatmarketingblog.com/2011/01/17/adventures-in-emai... It's a shame that RFC 2369, which provides a standard for unsubscribing from mailing lists, has never been widely adopted. http://www.ietf.org/rfc/rfc2369.txt http://www.ietf.org/rfc/rfc2369.txt

pyre 15y ago
A large number of (non-technical) users associate "Mark as spam" with "I don't want to receive this anymore." In some cases, bad experiences with unsubscribe links may have nothing to do with it.
tomjen3 15y ago
You could properly solve that problem by letting them sign up for the email in the first place and rather than say "we will send you and you will have to unsubscribe".
aristus 15y ago
I really wish Google or one of the big email providers would add an unsubscribe button. It would try to do the right thing in the unsubscribe flow, and apply a personal filter, but not penalize the sender.
- rexf 15y ago
  Gmail has a prototype feature to unsubscribe you from e-mails: http://gmailblog.blogspot.com/2009/07/unsubscribing-made-easy.html http://gmailblog.blogspot.com/2009/07/unsubscribing-made-eas...

shabble 15y ago

I can't remember the site off the top of my head, but something recently wanted me to go through an entire sequence of 'exit interview' forms in order to unsubscribe. My response in the 'feedback' field was quite satisfying to write, but I doubt it'll ever actually be looked at.

dendory 15y ago

I never unsubscribe from lists. Any time I get an email from some new list I've apparently been subscribed to, I add a new filter to automatically delete any mail coming from that domain. I don't think my email is physically able to receive any mail at all from facebook, google, yahoo, and most of the other big domains out there, and I don't miss it at all.

jamesteow 15y ago
Great idea. Going to do the same.

stretchwithme 15y ago

The whole "unsubscribe" thing when you haven't subscribed to anything is a lie.

gte910h 15y ago

I report them to the FTC and tell them that I did if require anything more than a click or two and send them this link: http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-compliance-guide-business http://business.ftc.gov/documents/bus61-can-spam-act-complia... File a complaint here: https://www.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/ https://www.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/

paulbjensen 15y ago

I setup a mail filter to forward the email back to wherever it's sent, multiple times, and delete that email from my inbox. I've generated email threads from LoveFilm where they've had an entire conversation with themselves, great stuff.

mmahemoff 15y ago

I wrote up some ideas on best practices for unsubscription recently, after trawling through my inbox to clear the clutter. http://softwareas.com/best-practices-for-mailing-list-unsubscription http://softwareas.com/best-practices-for-mailing-list-unsubs... If you're doing one-click unsubscribe, a smart practice is showing a message with other ways to stay engaged, e.g. Twitter ... and providing a one-click undo (ie re-subscribe).

RobertKohr 15y ago

I despise it when I try to unsubscribe and this comes up for me. My simple response: click "spam" button in my email, thus decreasing their deliverability. If you send out newsletters or whatnot, be sure to make unsubscribe obvious and single-click, otherwise you will face the ultimate in email marketing payback... no one seeing your messages. As someone who used to be heavy in email marketing, deliverability is the holy grail, and it doesn't take too many times as marked as spam before you are lost forever.