Right. As soon as some form of curation occurs you're being suggested something. What the parent might be trying to say if I steel man it is that he's still mak

Right. As soon as some form of curation occurs you're being suggested something. What the parent might be trying to say if I steel man it is that he's still making a choice between the options that he's being suggested. Which, yes he is, but you're still making a choice between suggested options. These things are not mutually exclusive.