This comment is a wonderful template to consider. In my personal context, this would be about leaving a certain very-American religion and being the more-or-les

This comment is a wonderful template to consider. In my personal context, this would be about leaving a certain very-American religion and being the more-or-less first to take plunge: you really wanna share your "greater truth" and help those close to you unburden themselves by letting go of something so obviously false. You really can't "red pill" people, and the closer they are to you the lower the chances of success. You can, however, ask (non leading) questions and listen. If you can't start by being curious, don't expect them to make that leap first... and thats really where you have to start before you can change your mind.