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As much as it is manipulative per se, and might likely seem unnatural ("false"/"calculated"), it's at the same time quite effective. This form of communication
by kubanczyk 5y ago
As much as it is manipulative per se, and might likely seem unnatural ("false"/"calculated"), it's at the same time quite effective. This form of communication accomplishes its stated goals, and being a natural, ummm, bloke is not it.
- handoflixue 5y agoI've met quite a few other people who don't react well to NVC, so it seems at least worth giving NVC the caveat that it doesn't work universally. I'm not really sure what the difference is, but I expect tact filters (https://www.mit.edu/~jcb/tact.html https://www.mit.edu/~jcb/tact.html) probably play a big role. In particular, NVC seems fanatically about "speaker needs to apply tact", and geek culture is often deeply rooted in "listener needs to apply tact". That's just me guessing in the dark based on anecdotes, though.