I forget where, but there's an actual psychological research outcome which says - we're kinder to strangers. As for family, we're sure kind but we're frank, op

I forget where, but there's an actual psychological research outcome which says - we're kinder to strangers. As for family, we're sure kind but we're frank, open, honest and unafraid of a retaliation or revenge of too. This usage of "family" metaphor is a BIG and dishonest abuse of the concept IMHO. It's work, it might be boring, tiring, has to be done with utmost perfection, precision and professionalism with professional coordination of others possibly, in a group of people. It is a thing in its own right and needs no metaphors.