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Reality seems to be that very few pairs of people have mutual interest in each other. Matching is just increasing the probability, but it's still random.
by yobbo 5y ago
Reality seems to be that very few pairs of people have mutual interest in each other. Matching is just increasing the probability, but it's still random.
- xwolfi 5y agoI find that it's also very possible to make concerted effort and end up fine in a relationship with relatively anyone: I've been with a student who spent her life in the same region as me, studied in the same class at uni and had exactly the same age for 6 years, a Pakistani 4 years younger, practicing muslim who was born and lived in Hong Kong, for 2 years, and ended up marrying a Chinese citizen 2 years older than me, and it's been 5 years and a child now... So I think none of the match making matters as much as the capacity for patience in relationship as well as rational understanding you build a partnership not a lifelong burning passion :D