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What if their money issues are their own doing (they live way above their means)? If you give them money, you're an enabler.
by theandrewbailey 5y ago
What if their money issues are their own doing (they live way above their means)? If you give them money, you're an enabler.
- DamnYuppie 5y agoNot sure why this is getting down voted. Most people who have money problems have them because of their own behaviors. I agree giving money to someone who is bad with money doesn't really help them it only wastes your money.
- ineedasername 5y agoWhat if they're not? It seems like the type of thing that requires individual judgement instead of a flat rule.
- bostonsre 5y agoAs long as you aren't giving them money to piss away on drugs or something similar, so what? You would give your family and/or friends an easier and happier life.
- theandrewbailey 5y agoMaybe, but be careful. It doesn't have to be drugs. You can cover their food and some of their house payment, because they're broke, but they bought a new boat (or similar expensive item) anyways. Surely, they can't ask their rich relative for too many vacations, right? Or vacation houses? For someone who keeps their word and is honest about their finances and asks for such-and-such, fine. For those who don't care for paying off the debt they have and always gets more, and you give them money, you're feeding their entitlement, and ultimately making no one happy.