it depends on who is the boss. Lets suppose that your GF gave your a printed list which says: ... would you think that she is an asshole? Nope. Instead, you'd

it depends on who is the boss. Lets suppose that your GF gave your a printed list which says: ... would you think that she is an asshole? Nope. Instead, you'd most definitely think that she is a queen. lolwut? Dude, if that's how the power differential in your relationship works then you definitely need a new girlfriend. Or maybe she needs a new boyfriend. One or the other.