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Again, it's all in how you phrase 'em. Example: I wouldn't date a girl who was vegetarian, who smoked, or who didn't shave her armpits. And that's fine. But if
by hugh3 15y ago
Again, it's all in how you phrase 'em.
Example: I wouldn't date a girl who was vegetarian, who smoked, or who didn't shave her armpits. And that's fine. But if I gave my girlfriend a printed list which says:
RULES FOR DATING ME
1. Do not smoke
2. Eat meat at least three times a week
3. Keep your armpits free of hair
...
then she would rightly think that I was a complete asshole.
- VladRussian 15y agoit depends on who is the boss. Lets suppose that your GF gave your a printed list which says: RULES FOR DATING ME 1. Do not smoke 2. Eat meat at least three times a week 3. Keep your armpits free of hair ... would you think that she is an asshole? Nope. Instead, you'd most definitely think that she is a queen. Thinking back to the original blog and rules - well if your boss is an asshole who thinks about himself like queen - well, in that case such rules seems to be expected and there is no other way around except to change the job.
- hugh3 15y agoit depends on who is the boss. Lets suppose that your GF gave your a printed list which says: ... would you think that she is an asshole? Nope. Instead, you'd most definitely think that she is a queen. lolwut? Dude, if that's how the power differential in your relationship works then you definitely need a new girlfriend. Or maybe she needs a new boyfriend. One or the other.
- VladRussian 15y agowell, man, i'm happily married for a more than a decade, and enjoy my meat and non-smoking (did quit long time ago :).
- brown9-2 15y agoWhy is someone else being a vegetarian a deal breaker for you? Why do you care what anyone else eats as long as they are healthy?