I completely agree with your last sentence. However, I at least, find writing about emotional matters to be extremely difficult. When I sit down with a goal of

I completely agree with your last sentence. However, I at least, find writing about emotional matters to be extremely difficult. When I sit down with a goal of saying something nice, to show some compassion, to show what I'm actually feeling - what I usually end up doing is twisting the knife. So in general I write less, and see the people face to face ASAP. Any other way is just harder for us both. I could have easily made this mistake.