The problem I had was not the split between individualism and collectivism. The problem is that these "lessons" are coming from an employer with corrupted ince

The problem I had was not the split between individualism and collectivism. The problem is that these "lessons" are coming from an employer with corrupted incentives. They aren't trying to make a better citizenry. They are making a better cog for the machine. Hence the fascism angle. If you want to teach these lessons, teach them through the education system.