Same. I live a happy life with a very close relationship with my significant other. I spent years going on dates and refining a charming persona, but that was

Same. I live a happy life with a very close relationship with my significant other. I spent years going on dates and refining a charming persona, but that was the means to the end. Companionship is far more fulfilling than thin ego boosts, but you'll never find a partner unless you're willing to put in effort to become attractive to many potential partners and then attempting relationships. Sure, it's a facade and not who you are in your pure, unrefined, mammalian form, but it's a good version of yourself. None of this is particularly revolutionary; it's just how courtship and mating works with mammals. Tinder is just the lubricant.