If you want I can offer a fairly straightforward path from where you are that leads to more money. Housing and location can be solved by switching to remote an

If you want I can offer a fairly straightforward path from where you are that leads to more money. Housing and location can be solved by switching to remote and moving somewhere more rural if you're up for that. But it sounds like you've already come to the conclusion both of those things would lead you back to where you are now. For you friend I prescribe reading Sidartha.