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Frankly, there is a larger understanding among young people that it’s irresponsible to have a child unless you’re financially stable with a good space for a hom
by noahtallen 5y ago
Frankly, there is a larger understanding among young people that it’s irresponsible to have a child unless you’re financially stable with a good space for a home. Turns out that _most_ young people (outside of the software biz, of course!) don’t make enough money to support themselves plus a kid, plus a home with space good for raising kids. And they don’t feel outward pressure from their parents or religion to have a kid nearly as much as they used to.
And beyond that, poor mental health and knowledge of what kids can be like also means young people just don’t feel ready to raise a kid for quite a while.
These factors won’t go away without serious changes in how our economic system works.
I would also ask if it really matters that the birth to death ratio is more than one. One seems like a good baseline to maintain.
- FooBarBizBazz 5y agoPeople have silly cultural expectations about what is necessary to support children. I just saw a documentary about a Congolese truck driver with five kids. He made $120/month, and his goal in life was to keep them fed -- literally. If I were willing to take the expectations surrounding that man, and adopt them for myself, I could easily support two dozen children.
- rdtwo 5y agoYeah that’s not how you build functional adult in modern society, but might be a successful formula for a army of child soldiers
- FooBarBizBazz 5y agohttp://www.kiplingsociety.co.uk/poems_arith.htm http://www.kiplingsociety.co.uk/poems_arith.htm
- cinquemb 5y ago> Yeah that’s not how you build functional adult in modern society, I'm not quite sure anyone has a monopoly on a definition of what this could be, and very much subjective to various forms of "cultural hangups" that might be prevalent around the world at any given time.
- swiley 5y agoIt turns out rent in the west costs more than $120/month no matter how resourceful you are or how hard you work.
- FooBarBizBazz 5y agoAnd yet nobody leaves. Seems like a failure of imagination, to me.