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The comfort in shifting your locus of control outward comes from relieving the shame of failure, not from being an overall positive experience. In fact, it's co
by smolder 5y ago
The comfort in shifting your locus of control outward comes from relieving the shame of failure, not from being an overall positive experience. In fact, it's common for people to both take credit for their successes while blaming their failures on external factors to relieve the shame.
- WalterBright 5y agoBlaming failure on others or external factors doesn't lead to success. It leads to bitterness and resentment.
- smolder 5y agoRight, I wasn't really disputing that.