"Asking a girl out for a cup of coffee" isn't perceived as an attempt to rape. Flirting with a woman in an environment where they feel uncomfortable -- say, oh

"Asking a girl out for a cup of coffee" isn't perceived as an attempt to rape. Flirting with a woman in an environment where they feel uncomfortable -- say, oh, for example, early in the morning in a confined space -- isn't perceived as an attempt to rape, but it does make the flirter an insensitive jerk at best.