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> Why? Because I measure myself against 1) role models that are ahead of me in many ways - I've always done that, and it's how I grow, 2) against those with str
by TheSpiceIsLife 5y ago
> Why? Because I measure myself against 1) role models that are ahead of me in many ways - I've always done that, and it's how I grow, 2) against those with strengths in areas that I have weaknesses.
I don’t think this is why you feel like an imposter, rather this is a rationalisation for why you feel like an imposter.
It’s possibly to do 1 and 2 and not feel like an imposter, so this can’t be the whole reason. It might be necessary for some people some of the time, but it’s not a sufficient explanation.
You even called yourself out on it later in your comment where you say it’s a fallacy.
I’d hazard a guess the real issue is some kind of underlying generalised anxiety.