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> One thing he says: "The opposite of addiction is connection." Makes a lot of sense - I once read that a defining parameter to determine addiction is how it a
by webmobdev 5y ago
> One thing he says: "The opposite of addiction is connection."
Makes a lot of sense - I once read that a defining parameter to determine addiction is how it affects relationships. Addicted people often fight and eschew relationship in favour of their addiction. I am reminded of this often when I see kids fight with their parents about how much time the spend on their phones / tablets / computers instead of doing other activities.
- dkersten 5y agoThat's interesting and now that you mention it, yeah, that totally makes sense.
- tacocataco 5y ago"I am reminded of this often when I see kids fight with their parents about how much time the spend on their phones / tablets / computers instead of doing other activities." To be fair, some parents arent worth connecting with. I'm really happy for you if this isn't your personal experience.
- webmobdev 5y agoParental upbringing does obviously affect one's personality, and it is fair to say many addicts do come from dysfunctional families - https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/debunkingaddiction/2020/7/when-a-dysfunctional-family-triggers-your-addiction https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/debunkingaddiction/2020/7... ...
- denton-scratch 5y agoMost families are dysfunctional, to a greater or lesser extent. So many people come from dysfunctional families. Sure; if the custom in your family when faced with problems is to drink or drug, then it won't be surprising if you take the same approach. My limited experience of people from flawlessly functional families is that they tend to be - um - boring. I find people's flaws and weaknesses make them more attractive and interesting. YMMV.
- thedmstdmstdmst 5y agoI don't necessarily disagree but do you believe most people grow up in a dysfunctional family as outlined in the linked article as you stated? Like having at least one parent with some issue that leaves the child with trauma? This is most people's experience?