The issue is that the "supportive" quality high achieving women look for is different from the "supportive" quality high achieving men look for. Essentially, th

The issue is that the "supportive" quality high achieving women look for is different from the "supportive" quality high achieving men look for. Essentially, the modal supportive wife wouldn't be given the time of day by potential high achieving female spouses if her gender were switched. What (straight) women value in a mate is very different from what (straight) men value in a mate.