There are electronic three-way switches that have either a single button or an up/down rocker that always reacts the same way (up for on, down for off). These

There are electronic three-way switches that have either a single button or an up/down rocker that always reacts the same way (up for on, down for off). These are available in "smart"/connected form or regular electronics-only form. Example here: https://www.amazon.com/Lutron-Incandescent-Single-Pole-Multi-Location-MACL-153M-RHW-WH/dp/B008X3CH70/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=lutron+three+way+dimmer&qid=1628275248&sr=8-3 https://www.amazon.com/Lutron-Incandescent-Single-Pole-Multi... I agree with you and much prefer them to the traditional switches.