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I use the 'dont have the money' excuse all the time for some people. As the other side seems to be a consistent lack of respect for my time, for some people.
by sumtechguy 5y ago
I use the 'dont have the money' excuse all the time for some people. As the other side seems to be a consistent lack of respect for my time, for some people. 'what why? you are not doing anything anyway'. Basically they have decided whatever I was going to use that time for is better spent with whatever activity they cooked up. Sometimes that is true. But the money thing seems to get them to think it through. The impulsive people seem to get it more, as they are usually short no mater how much cash they make. They seem to find a way to burn through it. The more thoughtful people approach it with a respect of my time and I can discuss it rationally with them.
- alistairSH 5y agoI wonder if there's an age component. I'm mid-40s. There's zero expectation that people make late-breaking plans to go party downtown (as would have been the case in my 20s). And some friends have kids, which just complicates things more. At the end of the day "nah, I have [life] going on" is a completely normal response.
- sumtechguy 5y agoI think there is some of that. But some of the people I use this on are well past 40. But my theory is some people never 'grow up'.