I don't think that's entirely fair. I have a limited amount of energy to spend on social activities in a week. just because I decline many of your invitations t

I don't think that's entirely fair. I have a limited amount of energy to spend on social activities in a week. just because I decline many of your invitations to hang out doesn't mean I won't clear my schedule to help you move, drive you to the hospital, or even help you make rent every once in a while. unless there's some additional context (eg, "I have something important to discuss", "I want you to meet {important person to me}"), I tend to consider social invitations as low priority requests.