2 ms·
You can't help who you're attracted to, and race (which is much more than just color) plays a part in that just like body shape and a million other factors do.
by happytoexplain 5y ago
You can't help who you're attracted to, and race (which is much more than just color) plays a part in that just like body shape and a million other factors do. Yes, as with anything else involving race, it's a huge source of racist noise, but underneath all that there is still the inescapable fact of it.
- rektide 5y agocounterpoint: you can. you can consider & reassess your dispositions. we have superficial attractions & being willing to consider, try dating & entertain people outside our normative/preferred norms, make room to try & see can make a world of difference. You can't help who you're attracted to
- the_only_law 5y agoI agree, however I still find it weird to be so explicit about something like that. Wouldn't simply not swiping on people you don't find attractive be effective? Same with other factors like weight, etc., though with weight, I suppose its easier to hide. Filters also seem like a good options, but dating apps love to milk money by making people pay from seemingly the most basic features.