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Thanks for the thoughtful response. > Would it motivate you to have children if the government offered to take them off your hands after they're born? Yes, I'

Thanks for the thoughtful response. > Would it motivate you to have children if the government offered to take them off your hands after they're born? Yes, I'd give them all the babies int the world if they offered to take them off my hands after they were born. "Kibbutz" was the word that sprang to my mind when I wrote my first comment. I'm curious, too, if the state could professionalize birthing: a woman would be paid a hefty sum to bear a child to term and the child's care would be taken over by an intimately sized kibbutz. My understanding of the failure of orphanages is that it is both the origin of trauma that haunts its orphans and the poverty of resources and caregivers allocated to them.

asoneth 5y ago
> I'd give them all the babies in the world if they offered to take them off my hands after they were born Assuming you have not already done so, perhaps becoming a surrogate or donating sperm would be an option for you? While it's not exactly handing a baby to the state, there are many couples who would be interested in raising children but are not biologically capable. At least of the parents I know, I am skeptical that simply offering to take additional children off their hands would incentivize them to continue giving birth to more children. > a woman would be paid a hefty sum to bear a child to term In the US the market has determined that sum to be $25,000 on average.[1] I don't know whether you would consider that hefty, but it's at least an order of magnitude lower than what it would take to incentivize me to bear a child. [1] https://surrogate.com/surrogates/becoming-a-surrogate/being-compensated-as-a-surrogate/ https://surrogate.com/surrogates/becoming-a-surrogate/being-...