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Well, men do outnumber lesbians by something like 30:1. Also not sure if you have les-dar or how you know if a woman checking you out is a lesbian or is just cr
by oh_sigh 5y ago
Well, men do outnumber lesbians by something like 30:1. Also not sure if you have les-dar or how you know if a woman checking you out is a lesbian or is just critiquing your outfit in her mind.
- jauer 5y agoI live in an area with a unusually high number of wlw :) Women seem to have different facial cues when critiquing outfits. Straight women seem to be less guarded with those cues. It's a totally different facial expression from checking someone out. Gay women seem more discrete with their checking out unless in an explicitly gay environment (am bi, have been in those environments, the game night I go to is largely wlw). This makes a lot of sense when you consider growing up in locker rooms etc with people you might find attractive. If you check any of the reddits for women that came out later in life (commonly defined as 30+ yrs old), you'll find quite a few posts from people struggling with expressing attraction without feeling creepy.