I think you're missing the point of what the guy is saying ... He's not asking for tips and tricks to live happier in a downvote world. He's saying, I think, th

I think you're missing the point of what the guy is saying ... He's not asking for tips and tricks to live happier in a downvote world. He's saying, I think, that downvotes are conversation stoppers and does not help us get to the bottom of things and they should not be the default were people form communities.