The strategy that I have used when out of the job market for a while is to consider the first few interviews as throwaways that I use to learn what he market co

The strategy that I have used when out of the job market for a while is to consider the first few interviews as throwaways that I use to learn what he market conditions, interview fads and the like are. If I get blown away, so what; it's a learning experience. If I get an instant offer, I'll still keep on looking, until I get a good feel. (Unless it's the best job I've ever seen.) It's like dating. You shouldnt get bummed out if the first person you date isnt a fit. EDIT: If you have a stable relationship, consider giving her the financial help that she needs to make a career change. Give up your bowling league or whatever. Consider her to be a good startup investment. Of course, consider the soundness of whatever she wants to do. If her dream is to start a used clothing store, it is probably best to be a bit hard of hearing.