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> Receiving compliments has always made me squirm, even suspicious. To add to that, it feels weird to GIVE compliments for the same reason: fear that somebody
by Rd6n6 5y ago
> Receiving compliments has always made me squirm, even suspicious.
To add to that, it feels weird to GIVE compliments for the same reason: fear that somebody will be suspicious that you're flattering or "sucking up." If they think you're flattering them, they might feel like you don't respect them, which is the opposite of the intention. This is 10x as true if the other person is your boss.
There must be some art to how you deliver it that helps with that
- sharken 5y agoWhen it's sincere i really don't care about the mind games of giving a compliment. But then the threshold for giving a compliment is probably too high, in the workplace it's reserved for those truly doing a difference.