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Why do you want to change that? You sound fine the way you are, and you can still be successful. I find tremendous peace at being almost completely noncompeti
by runjake 5y ago
Why do you want to change that?
You sound fine the way you are, and you can still be successful.
I find tremendous peace at being almost completely noncompetitive (except when it comes to combat sports, but even then it's pretty friendly.)
Perhaps work on being more strategic when cooperating with others and learn to watch out for your self-interests better. At the same time, helping other good people will pay dividends, down the road.
- martinmakesgame 5y agoAlso the world is not a zero sum game. I win when we both win. In a competitive environment it isn't necessary for someone to win and someone to lose. If someone else wins and I "lose" then I get enjoyment from the other person's win. > Do you feel jealous when you see other people getting successful Comparison to others doesn't help how we feel. The only person we can compare ourselves to is ourself. If I ask myself, "Am I better today than yesterday?", if the answer is yes then I say great and let the thought go. If the answer is no, then I have an opportunity tomorrow to do what I can and do better.