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> Everyone has the running dialogue, all the time. Actually this varies! It seems like most people have it, but some people don't (including me). People are o
by throwaway34241 5y ago
> Everyone has the running dialogue, all the time.
Actually this varies! It seems like most people have it, but some people don't (including me). People are often surprised the other exists. [1] I obviously still think, but most of it is non-verbal.
> noticing that you've been distracted, IS the practice
I'm talking about the exercise with the goal to focus awareness on the breath. Of course I found myself thinking all sorts of stuff at first, but I approached it with the goal to be undistracted with pure awareness on the breath. It was very difficult and took a long time, and I can't explain how exactly I did it, but I think I largely got there, and it put me in an intensely altered mental state afterward.
Maybe not having a normal running dialogue made it easier? It still felt extremely difficult though.
[1] https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9oyhie/is_it_true_that_many_people_or_even_most_people/ https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9oyhie/is_i... (I'm sure I've seen this come up more than once, there may be better links on Google)
- denton-scratch 5y agoI guess quite a lot of my instruction may have been 'idiosyncratic'. The way I was instructed, focus on the breath isn't a 'goal', it's a sort of home-base - where you come back to when you notice thoughts (or physical pain, or whatever - it's all 'thoughts'). I was told not to approach it with a goal, and not to look for signs of 'success'. I think the results differ, even for what appears to be exactly the same practice, depending on your attitude.