You don't know that he was looking for hookups. I know that the data for a competitor of scruff showed that at least 1/3 of the people just wanted to find someo

You don't know that he was looking for hookups. I know that the data for a competitor of scruff showed that at least 1/3 of the people just wanted to find someone to chat with. I still can't see why the assumption here was that he broke his vow of celibacy. If he's gay and closeted, I can see the human need for connection (whether in real life at gay bars or on Grindr) of like kind even if he doesn't participate with an 'out of control libido.' You're snapping to judgement.