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He knows that and is alluded to the fact that the article mentions the gay bar to taint his character and create a narrative that he is lurking on the down low.
by headShrinker 5y ago
He knows that and is alluded to the fact that the article mentions the gay bar to taint his character and create a narrative that he is lurking on the down low.
Many people go to gay bars not to hook up, but to be around other gay people. Gay bars are not a hookup app.
- lupire 5y agoWhy are there gay bars but not gay restaurants or gay coffee shops?
- roseway4 5y agoThere are. Bars, restaurants, coffee shops, and more all offer community to LGBT people , as they do many other minorities (and special interest groups, for that matter).
- teawrecks 5y agoStraight people tend to get offended when a gay person hits on them, and drunk offended people can sometimes get violent. On the flip side of the coin, heteronormative bars present an added challenge for gay people looking for a hookup as they can't always tell who will be receptive. There was a need and the market filled it. And for the record, straight people are allowed in too, it's not like they scan you with a gaydar at the door. You just have to be ok with people hitting on you who you're probably not interested in. So it's like being a woman in a normal bar.
- sterlind 5y agoone of my favorite places to hang out was a gay coffee shop that was next to a gay bookstore, thank you very much!