Well sure, but that's also true of how you treat men (you may just not realize it consciously). To deny that appearance plays a role in how other people percei

Well sure, but that's also true of how you treat men (you may just not realize it consciously). To deny that appearance plays a role in how other people perceive you and treat you is to deny reality. It may not be fair, but it's a reality that's probably literally baked into our genes.