>what OP meant rather than the words on the screen Mmm, I was actually just pushing back against the words on the screen. I don't doubt the OP means it the way

>what OP meant rather than the words on the screen Mmm, I was actually just pushing back against the words on the screen. I don't doubt the OP means it the way you read it. I guess I don't generally see a rejoinder as a way of embarrassing the person I'm replying too - rather as a way of contesting the point, refining it, or clarifying it. I actually quite rarely notice who I'm talking to online.