Not all psychological trauma is necessarily due to abuse. When my wife was pregnant and we didn't know the gender yet I did a lot of reading on attachment theo

Not all psychological trauma is necessarily due to abuse. When my wife was pregnant and we didn't know the gender yet I did a lot of reading on attachment theory and what truth there is to "daddy issues" etc. in case it was a girl. It's a trope, but there's something to it. As it turns out we have a lovely baby boy. Now, to avoid traumatizing him...