Ok, fine. First define "normal", then answer the question of "normal according to who". If it was just that simple, you wouldn't have entire industries (self h

Ok, fine. First define "normal", then answer the question of "normal according to who". If it was just that simple, you wouldn't have entire industries (self help seminars, retreats, religious cults of all kinds, pop psychology, and so forth) built on looking for an alternative.